Saturday, December 11, 2021

Divorce and shared custody can be a positive .

Sometimes relationships don't work from the get-go, and there is a child involved. At first, you may feel sorry for the child who is caught in the "Daddy's house, Mommy's house" and their life sees like a whirlwind of 2 days here, and a week there, and crying when he or she has to leave the one parent to go to the other. There he is, a tiny human, packsack on back, being carted from 1 home to another. 

Father  holding baby, image via Burst

Yet, there is another way to look at this. Shared custody can be a good thing for some parents, read this article below: 
https://slate.com/human-interest/2017/06/divorce-and-shared-custody-suits-me-and-it-suits-my-kids-too.html?fbclid=IwAR0_SafCoZPk8IPd62Nl77Ffdp8qOHk0iTc_8YqpAsaPjkf-SrMH1Y9vGJw

Raising kids is never easy, and shared custody means one parent can have some alone time to regain their sanity and get their own errands done. 

When the child is small, it can be hard on them...." Where are you going, Daddy...?"Crying fits and major meltdowns." 
" I want to go to Mommy's house....sniff...sniff"

For a lot of couples getting married, shared custody, & visitation schedules have to be addressed before the Wedding. 

What are your thoughts? My favourite is when our Grandchild leaves, he always says, "Guys, don't worry...I be back!"

Waves on Lake superior

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